I live with my mother and 4 days a week I work. On these days a carer comes in to make my mother lunch. This Monday the carer came round to find my mother absent from the house and the front door wide open. My mother came back about 30 mins later and my neighbours let her in. The carer then came back about an hour later to find yet again that my mother had gone out and left the door open, only this time it was ajar and not wide open.
Concerned about the whereabouts of my mother I left work and went home. (My journey takes over an hour). When I came home it was pouring with rain and it took me an hour to find her. I found her walking only 3 streets away from home. She had her jacket on but only a summer straw hat and no umbrella. I got her home and made her lunch.
My concerns are this: I have issued her with a GPS tracker on a set of keys, which she subsequently lost. I have located them but they are in a really dodgy part of town that I do not want to visit. She is convinced she shut the front door on both occasions and I do not want her to stop going out. If the carer can not make her lunch (because my mother is out wandering) this means she will not have anything to eat from 7:30am (when I make her breakfast) until 7pm when I come home from work. I have had to take time off work to find her and to try and come up with a solution. Talking to her about shutting the door or at least waiting for the carer to come round appears to go in one ear and out the other.
Any advice is greatfully received.
Concerned about the whereabouts of my mother I left work and went home. (My journey takes over an hour). When I came home it was pouring with rain and it took me an hour to find her. I found her walking only 3 streets away from home. She had her jacket on but only a summer straw hat and no umbrella. I got her home and made her lunch.
My concerns are this: I have issued her with a GPS tracker on a set of keys, which she subsequently lost. I have located them but they are in a really dodgy part of town that I do not want to visit. She is convinced she shut the front door on both occasions and I do not want her to stop going out. If the carer can not make her lunch (because my mother is out wandering) this means she will not have anything to eat from 7:30am (when I make her breakfast) until 7pm when I come home from work. I have had to take time off work to find her and to try and come up with a solution. Talking to her about shutting the door or at least waiting for the carer to come round appears to go in one ear and out the other.
Any advice is greatfully received.