Hello,
My dad aged 60 has frontotempal dementia. I am only 18 and we live with my mother as well. Me and her are struggling to cope at the moment with her working full time and I am also working to save up for university which I should be attending in September. My dads issues are worsening, he has little quality of life and spends most his week days wandering around, sometimes walking 10 miles a day with no supervision crossing busy roads, or spending his time in bed. He also has an issue with boundries as will often wander into peoples gardens and even houses which obviously causes an issue. He is fine on the weekends mainly as we can take him out and keep him engaged. However, we can’t afford to get him a full time career for the week and we won’t be given anything due to the amount of savings he has. We have even considered care homes but he’s so young. He cannot cope with social interactions. I’m also considering deferring my university start till next year so I can care for him for a year but I’d still need to work. I just feel he has no quality of life and it’s such a risk with him wandering around everywhere. I avoid going out and hate going to work Incase he’s out somewhere tress-passing. Any advice or similar situations would be appreciated. Thank you
My dad aged 60 has frontotempal dementia. I am only 18 and we live with my mother as well. Me and her are struggling to cope at the moment with her working full time and I am also working to save up for university which I should be attending in September. My dads issues are worsening, he has little quality of life and spends most his week days wandering around, sometimes walking 10 miles a day with no supervision crossing busy roads, or spending his time in bed. He also has an issue with boundries as will often wander into peoples gardens and even houses which obviously causes an issue. He is fine on the weekends mainly as we can take him out and keep him engaged. However, we can’t afford to get him a full time career for the week and we won’t be given anything due to the amount of savings he has. We have even considered care homes but he’s so young. He cannot cope with social interactions. I’m also considering deferring my university start till next year so I can care for him for a year but I’d still need to work. I just feel he has no quality of life and it’s such a risk with him wandering around everywhere. I avoid going out and hate going to work Incase he’s out somewhere tress-passing. Any advice or similar situations would be appreciated. Thank you