Hi, my OH somtimes can't find the toilet at night - we do have night lights plugged in. If I'm awake I usually direct him to the loo and put the seat up for him so he can see where to pee. Otherwise I find puddles in the bedroom or hallway and I've just been putting kitchen roll over them to deal with in the morning. He normally gets up first and the kitchen roll is all cleared up by the time I get up and not mentioned. Last night he started to be slightly aggresive when I tried to direct him so I just backed off and he pee'd in the hall. I did the usual with kitchen roll but this morning the wet kitchen roll is in a pile at the end of the hall!
So I'm expecting a conversation about it - do I tell him it's him urinating without realising he's not in the loo or do I say the dog has a problem? He hasn't been diagnosed, waiting for appointment with memory clinic, dementia never been mentioned.
So I'm expecting a conversation about it - do I tell him it's him urinating without realising he's not in the loo or do I say the dog has a problem? He hasn't been diagnosed, waiting for appointment with memory clinic, dementia never been mentioned.