Recently dad has kept falling asleep when I visit. I've tried everything- jazz(traditional!) cd's, football DVDs ( which he loves- he has written books about his favourite team), me waffling on.. And on(!), Fawlty Towers, etc etc..Tonight, I hoped I had a wee moment of clarity- dad gave me a half-smile ( I was waffling) and dozed off- again. With a wee half smile on his face. I like to think, and I may be wrong, that he feels secure when I'm there. He's old, tired and maybe, just maybe.. I'm 'comfortable' to be around. The carers at the home said he was 'good' with them this morning- so he must talk more to them.... I'm at a loss.. What else can I do? I used to take him out, but he's too frail now, getting him in and out of the car could be a disaster- he forgets how to get out of his chair, and has long spells of just staring at me with glazed eyes. What else can I do? Any advice ..
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