Thanks to everyone who replied it was lovely to hear from other people going through the same thing and your words of support have made me feel positive.
I have 5 sisters and 1 brother out of 7 of us only 3 sisters do more or less everything for mum like shopping, cleaning cooking taking her out mostly to family gatherings or for nice meals.
I am so angry at one of my sisters beacause she does'nt visit mum never does anything for her when I asked her to help us she just said she cant commit to every week as she works grrrrrr I work also I am a carerer for my married daughter who has Rhumatoid Arthritis and has lost all her mobility I also look after my grandson 4 days a week and on my only day off I visit my mum and do what needs doing.
My younger sister and I told mum yesterday she has Alzheimers it just did not register with her tried to explain simply that it is her memory she was ok about it such a relief.I cant understand how my other sister can treat mum like this.
Thanks for listening and for you kind words and your advice, I am so glad I found this site
I have 5 sisters and 1 brother out of 7 of us only 3 sisters do more or less everything for mum like shopping, cleaning cooking taking her out mostly to family gatherings or for nice meals.
I am so angry at one of my sisters beacause she does'nt visit mum never does anything for her when I asked her to help us she just said she cant commit to every week as she works grrrrrr I work also I am a carerer for my married daughter who has Rhumatoid Arthritis and has lost all her mobility I also look after my grandson 4 days a week and on my only day off I visit my mum and do what needs doing.
My younger sister and I told mum yesterday she has Alzheimers it just did not register with her tried to explain simply that it is her memory she was ok about it such a relief.I cant understand how my other sister can treat mum like this.
Thanks for listening and for you kind words and your advice, I am so glad I found this site
