Hi, I'm new to the group. My mother in law has vascular dementia and is now in a nursing home. We just visited and we sit with her she doesn't know us really and keeps saying she wants to go home but doesn't know where home is. We tell her this isn't home but it's where you have to live to be cared for. She doesn't respond to our conversations we struggle to make conversation with her now because she doesn't respond. We talk about old holidays and good times but rarely get any response. We feel it's not worth visiting anymore as she just gets upset because we can't take her home. Sorry long first post. She has been in care 2 years nearly and this dementia happened over night due to strokes. So difficult for everyone involved.