Just wondered how families manage social media accounts with PWD.
A few days ago my Mum completely misinterpreted a post my cousin who lives abroad had shared on Facebook over two weeks ago. The post was appealing for witnesses regarding a fatality in a road traffic accident in the area where my cousins live. Although there was a photo of the victim my Mum thought it was my cousin’s older brother who’d been killed. My husband and I received a frantic phone call from my Dad whilst we were driving. At the time us wasn’t clear where the information had come from and it wasn’t until we’d been able to phone her back and I could hear her screaming in the background about a post on FB which she now couldn’t find. I must admit alarm bells started ringing at that point as I’d seen posts by my family earlier that day and doubted they’d broadcast anything like that on social media.
My poor husband accidentally drove through a red light on the way home and I then had the difficult job of trying to contact my family. Although it was a huge relief to find nothing had happened to anyone the sheer emotional fall out took a long time to subside.
I’m unclear why a FB post from a fortnight ago had suddenly appeared in my Mum’s feed but guess it must. e something to do with the algorithm.
Predictably my Mum had forgotten all about it by the following day but the consequences of her mistake are likely to stay with us for a long time particularly if our car was caught in camera driving through a red light. Since then I’ve been feeling really upset and angry about the problems she caused although I realise it’s nothing like some people have to put up with.
I hope this was a one off but feel it won’t be. Had anyone else has had problems with PWD on social media, how have they dealt with and have they ended up asking for the account to be deleted. I understand you can do this if the person had a definite diagnosis of Alzheimer’s.
A few days ago my Mum completely misinterpreted a post my cousin who lives abroad had shared on Facebook over two weeks ago. The post was appealing for witnesses regarding a fatality in a road traffic accident in the area where my cousins live. Although there was a photo of the victim my Mum thought it was my cousin’s older brother who’d been killed. My husband and I received a frantic phone call from my Dad whilst we were driving. At the time us wasn’t clear where the information had come from and it wasn’t until we’d been able to phone her back and I could hear her screaming in the background about a post on FB which she now couldn’t find. I must admit alarm bells started ringing at that point as I’d seen posts by my family earlier that day and doubted they’d broadcast anything like that on social media.
My poor husband accidentally drove through a red light on the way home and I then had the difficult job of trying to contact my family. Although it was a huge relief to find nothing had happened to anyone the sheer emotional fall out took a long time to subside.
I’m unclear why a FB post from a fortnight ago had suddenly appeared in my Mum’s feed but guess it must. e something to do with the algorithm.
Predictably my Mum had forgotten all about it by the following day but the consequences of her mistake are likely to stay with us for a long time particularly if our car was caught in camera driving through a red light. Since then I’ve been feeling really upset and angry about the problems she caused although I realise it’s nothing like some people have to put up with.
I hope this was a one off but feel it won’t be. Had anyone else has had problems with PWD on social media, how have they dealt with and have they ended up asking for the account to be deleted. I understand you can do this if the person had a definite diagnosis of Alzheimer’s.