Mum has vascular and Alzheimer's, I live next door and am her carer. My sister has long-standing drug problems, is desperately short of money and has (in my opinion) mental health issues. 4-5 days a week she is in mum's house, ranting at mum about money, uses her shower, washing machine, phone etc, often sleeps in mum's bed, takes drugs in the house, invites awful people in, steals from mum's purse. Mum's eating/sleeping/activity routines are completely disrupted, she gets exhausted, depressed, angry and confused.
I have PoA for finance but there is no PoA for personal welfare. Sister is exceptionally hostile to me - has instigated investigations of me from social services, public guardian, GP, all of which have said I am doing pretty well under difficult circumstances. Mum really struggling with the situation but will not complain to anyone except me about what going on - anyone else she just clams up. Police, social services etc will not take any action unless mum makes a complaint. It seems that what I report is not valid to them so I've given up bothering.
Now after two years of constant battling with sister am at the end of my tether. I can't go on trying to care under these conditions.
Not expecting any solutions! Just wondering if anyone else has these kinds of problems with siblings or other relatives.
I have PoA for finance but there is no PoA for personal welfare. Sister is exceptionally hostile to me - has instigated investigations of me from social services, public guardian, GP, all of which have said I am doing pretty well under difficult circumstances. Mum really struggling with the situation but will not complain to anyone except me about what going on - anyone else she just clams up. Police, social services etc will not take any action unless mum makes a complaint. It seems that what I report is not valid to them so I've given up bothering.
Now after two years of constant battling with sister am at the end of my tether. I can't go on trying to care under these conditions.
Not expecting any solutions! Just wondering if anyone else has these kinds of problems with siblings or other relatives.