Hi there, I'm new to this forum but it looks fantastic.
My concern is for my Mum, who is carer to my Dad - he has Altzheimers. Dad has been getting increasingly aggressive towards Mum, usually late afternoon / early evening when he is sundowning. He is physically big and strong and I worry about her. He has grabbed her and dragged her along, he has threatened her with violence such as saying he's going to throttle her. He pushed her in to a wall etc.
The plan was to keep him at home and Mum has a live in carer who helps her. Dad is not aggressive towards the carer, just my Mum. It is a brief 'flash' of anger, not every day, lasts 20 minutes or so and then he returns to normal and has no recollection of it.
Does anyone have experience of this or advice on how to make sure Mum is safe? We don't feel ready to put him in a home, but I have to make sure that my Mum is okay and safe. Any advice greatly appreciated, thank you.
My concern is for my Mum, who is carer to my Dad - he has Altzheimers. Dad has been getting increasingly aggressive towards Mum, usually late afternoon / early evening when he is sundowning. He is physically big and strong and I worry about her. He has grabbed her and dragged her along, he has threatened her with violence such as saying he's going to throttle her. He pushed her in to a wall etc.
The plan was to keep him at home and Mum has a live in carer who helps her. Dad is not aggressive towards the carer, just my Mum. It is a brief 'flash' of anger, not every day, lasts 20 minutes or so and then he returns to normal and has no recollection of it.
Does anyone have experience of this or advice on how to make sure Mum is safe? We don't feel ready to put him in a home, but I have to make sure that my Mum is okay and safe. Any advice greatly appreciated, thank you.