My wife with moderate AD started doing it about 4 months ago. But, until 2 weeks ago, I could just keep on asking/telling her to take a shower and it worked. Now, for the past 14 days, I cannot coerce, coax, or cajole her into showering. My big concern is UTI's- I have to change her underwear while she's in the shower; I don't care about the other clothes too much, I've had an old friend of hers visit this morning and between the 2 of us, we spent over 3 hours attempting to get my wife to shower, if not that, change clothes if, not that, change underwear. Nothing ! we even tried a Xanax pill and waited 1/2 hour for it take effect; I might as well have given a piece of candy.
my concern is really that at least 1 care facility has said that if she refuses to get undressed , take a shower, and change her clothes, and she resists, they may require that she go to a special place where they would treat her with antipsychotics. I don't want my wife turned into a zombie- that will happen by itself with the AD.
my concern is really that at least 1 care facility has said that if she refuses to get undressed , take a shower, and change her clothes, and she resists, they may require that she go to a special place where they would treat her with antipsychotics. I don't want my wife turned into a zombie- that will happen by itself with the AD.
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