When I worked for a Center for the Frail Elderly, Dementia was only a title. However, my mother now suffers from Dementia which is currently progressing into fourth/late stage. I'm Mom's daughter and caregiver; and she lives with me. With the exception of a 4-hour nurse, my husband children and I care for Mom 24/7. I am Mom's main caregiver and my sister/s come in the evenings to put Mom to bed. This plan sounds easy; however, it has been a crazy, mind-blowing roller coaster. I hope to find information, relief, and support here. It's not easy caring for a person with Dementia while watching them slowly leave you. I don't know if Mom's closed eyes is her ignoring me, or that dying brain cells are happening. Your post on closed eyes helped so much. Thank you.