Hey everybody , I’m Nicki, I’m 33 and my 70 yr old father got diagnosed with vascular dementia from a large stroke ( or multiple nobody knows) recently but he’s been in a nursing facility for a year now..he had an angioplasty and never was the same . So..the neurologist said it is moderate and that he has the brain of a 90-100 yr old with all the atrophy. He’s not mobile , and cannot care for himself at all, and doesn’t know where he is or anything . He recognizes me and that’s about it . He still talks but it’s mumbled, he has trouble swallowing . It definitely seems more late stage than moderate , but …I’m mostly just ..processing..I had a father who could walk and live on his own a year ago..and one surgery took everything away…I’m the only child and family is not close ..it’s a lot …he’s my only remaining parent , so I’m preparing to lose him…but also..trying to not be so negative..and process..but this is so difficult ..