My friend has power of attorney for her aunt who has dementia she has been in a care home for 18 months which is 230 mile round trip to visit her .my friend has found a very suitable care home just a mile from her home .but social services said she cannot go because she was given a deprivation order because she kept trying to escape .she has breast cancer and is receiving treatment but will only go to hospital if my friend takes her ,which means a long journey .sureley the home cannot make her stay there.and her life would be in danger if she does not get treatment.can someone give advice please