Mintymadness
Registered User
I thought I would just say Hi and ask for a little support as I am feeling very overwhelmed and struggling with guilt.
My Grandmother has moderate vascular dementia (which she was able to hide from me as she worked in a dementia care home for years - hence my guilt for not spotting it sooner)
GM has really gone downhill since Christmas, which coincidently coincided with myself being unwell and off work for a month, I'm still coping with side effects.
Although my GM has her husband, a daughter and a son (my Dad) I feel that everything is being left up to me to do and sort out. Visiting up to 5 times a week, shopping, jobs around the house washing and ironing and personal care for my GM, I am now having to add Court of protection forms, deal with safeguarding issues and liaise with SS for emergency respite care. All on top of a job and young family.
I know I shouldn't, but I can't help but feel alone and angry
Has anyone else felt like this and how did you overcome it?
Thank you in advance.
xx
My Grandmother has moderate vascular dementia (which she was able to hide from me as she worked in a dementia care home for years - hence my guilt for not spotting it sooner)
GM has really gone downhill since Christmas, which coincidently coincided with myself being unwell and off work for a month, I'm still coping with side effects.
Although my GM has her husband, a daughter and a son (my Dad) I feel that everything is being left up to me to do and sort out. Visiting up to 5 times a week, shopping, jobs around the house washing and ironing and personal care for my GM, I am now having to add Court of protection forms, deal with safeguarding issues and liaise with SS for emergency respite care. All on top of a job and young family.
I know I shouldn't, but I can't help but feel alone and angry
Has anyone else felt like this and how did you overcome it?
Thank you in advance.
xx