Hi All,
I am hoping someone can give some advice. Our grandfather is in a care home and his son has LPA on property and finance only. We have become increasingly concerned over his "loans" of our grandfathers money to the grandchildren he has even said a figure of £40k. When we questioned the LPA about this (as we are also his grandchildren but have not received any such loans nor would we want to as it is our grandfathers money and nobody else's) he got quite defensive and just said his head isn't with him and he can't think straight. We have had many other similar interactions which I won't go into as honestly there's not enough time in the day to list it all.
After a lot of deliberating we decided to report the LPA to the OPG. We sent a very detailed email with dates of concerns we had which we can back up with messages off the LPA, letters, copy of new services like the internet and sky being set up at our grandfathers property (he is 95 and has never even used a computer in his life) etc. Anyway we have had a response 2 weeks ago that after some consideration the OPG are going to make further enquiries. We are pleased that someone who doesn't know us has taken our concerns seriously. We were starting to wonder if we were over thinking it all. We have yet to know if the LPA has been contacted by the OPG, does anyone know how long it will take before they do contact him? And do you know what the further enquiries will be? At the end of the day all we really want is for the OPG to ask for bank statements as we honestly believe there will be some eye opening expenditures on there that are not of benefit to our grandfather at all. Our grandfather has been diagnosed with early onset dementia but when we go and visit him in the care home he's great, laughing, chatting, reminiscing about old times but whenever the LPA (his son) visits he tells us our grandfather is talking nonsense and is aggressive and rude at times, something we have never witnessed.
We don't know what the LPA's intentions are but the more we see and hear the less we trust him and I am hoping for a positive outcome in all this. At the end of the day our grandfather means the world to us and too see his son, who our grandfather trusts and has no idea about any of the things that are going on, taking advantage is quite sickening.
If anyone else is going through this I would really like to hear from you with any advice you have, many thanks
Jon
I am hoping someone can give some advice. Our grandfather is in a care home and his son has LPA on property and finance only. We have become increasingly concerned over his "loans" of our grandfathers money to the grandchildren he has even said a figure of £40k. When we questioned the LPA about this (as we are also his grandchildren but have not received any such loans nor would we want to as it is our grandfathers money and nobody else's) he got quite defensive and just said his head isn't with him and he can't think straight. We have had many other similar interactions which I won't go into as honestly there's not enough time in the day to list it all.
After a lot of deliberating we decided to report the LPA to the OPG. We sent a very detailed email with dates of concerns we had which we can back up with messages off the LPA, letters, copy of new services like the internet and sky being set up at our grandfathers property (he is 95 and has never even used a computer in his life) etc. Anyway we have had a response 2 weeks ago that after some consideration the OPG are going to make further enquiries. We are pleased that someone who doesn't know us has taken our concerns seriously. We were starting to wonder if we were over thinking it all. We have yet to know if the LPA has been contacted by the OPG, does anyone know how long it will take before they do contact him? And do you know what the further enquiries will be? At the end of the day all we really want is for the OPG to ask for bank statements as we honestly believe there will be some eye opening expenditures on there that are not of benefit to our grandfather at all. Our grandfather has been diagnosed with early onset dementia but when we go and visit him in the care home he's great, laughing, chatting, reminiscing about old times but whenever the LPA (his son) visits he tells us our grandfather is talking nonsense and is aggressive and rude at times, something we have never witnessed.
We don't know what the LPA's intentions are but the more we see and hear the less we trust him and I am hoping for a positive outcome in all this. At the end of the day our grandfather means the world to us and too see his son, who our grandfather trusts and has no idea about any of the things that are going on, taking advantage is quite sickening.
If anyone else is going through this I would really like to hear from you with any advice you have, many thanks
Jon