I visited my husband yesterday as usual and he was slightly more confused than usual but generally ok. I got a phone call from the Home about an hour after I got home saying he wanted to talk to me. This was unusual as he doesn't get them to phone me now.
He informed me that he wants to come home and he has arranged a meeting today with me,him and the Home manager. Had he not phoned me I would have walked into this blind and due to a burst water tank in the loft I have currently a lot on.
I asked to speak to the Manager and she explained she felt he should move to the upper floor which is for people with earlier dementia.
My husband was placed in the home by Social services as all his medical team said he could not be safe at home. There were also huge safeguarding issues for me as he was very physically aggressive.
He recently asked his Parkinsons Nurse about going home. She was kind but didn't sugar coat it and said you are up most of the night,you are frequently agitated and sometimes aggressive. This would not be manageable at home.
Does anyone else feel they have no control over their life. I so often feel I am going down "Aiice's rabbit hole"
He informed me that he wants to come home and he has arranged a meeting today with me,him and the Home manager. Had he not phoned me I would have walked into this blind and due to a burst water tank in the loft I have currently a lot on.
I asked to speak to the Manager and she explained she felt he should move to the upper floor which is for people with earlier dementia.
My husband was placed in the home by Social services as all his medical team said he could not be safe at home. There were also huge safeguarding issues for me as he was very physically aggressive.
He recently asked his Parkinsons Nurse about going home. She was kind but didn't sugar coat it and said you are up most of the night,you are frequently agitated and sometimes aggressive. This would not be manageable at home.
Does anyone else feel they have no control over their life. I so often feel I am going down "Aiice's rabbit hole"