It's so hard isn't it, today I wonder how I can keep on going. My husband is a 72 year old toddler, he thinks he can do things but he can't. He splashed tea all over the kitchen wall this morning and it was so extensive I had to paint it .... between working, walking the dog, doing the washing, cleaning the house, paying the bills ......!! I don't take him out anymore, he is a nightmare in the car, telling me how to drive, trying to close the windows when its 30 degrees outside and complaining about other drivers. He is in the kitchen all day long, we've had to move to a small flat to pay off his debts and I just can't escape him. My husband has no friends because he's always been critical and difficult, our children find him difficult and are not close by so it is a very lonely existence. I just pray that this will be over soon.