I am an 85 year old service veteran. My wife and I have been together for 66 years.
Regretfully, my wife has been diagnosed as having Alzheimer's
It developed so quickly. She lost all interest in everything she loved doing, reading, crosswords, cooking, everything.
Sometimes she would ask me if I was her Dad and yet other days everything was normal.
She began to speak regularly to a little girl that was'nt there, and asked me several times to "chase that stray dog out of the house" which was not there.
I am fortunate to have a daughter that lives close enough to stay over for one or two nights to help me.
However, when Christine stays my wife thinks the house belongs to my daughter and she might not like us staying and we should get ready to go home.
I am struggling to come to terms with the situation, but following good advise, I show her much love and affection and show no anger or frustration. The girl I married and had a wonderful life with has gone, but she now more than ever needs my full support and understanding, and as long as I can I will be there for her.
Regretfully, my wife has been diagnosed as having Alzheimer's
It developed so quickly. She lost all interest in everything she loved doing, reading, crosswords, cooking, everything.
Sometimes she would ask me if I was her Dad and yet other days everything was normal.
She began to speak regularly to a little girl that was'nt there, and asked me several times to "chase that stray dog out of the house" which was not there.
I am fortunate to have a daughter that lives close enough to stay over for one or two nights to help me.
However, when Christine stays my wife thinks the house belongs to my daughter and she might not like us staying and we should get ready to go home.
I am struggling to come to terms with the situation, but following good advise, I show her much love and affection and show no anger or frustration. The girl I married and had a wonderful life with has gone, but she now more than ever needs my full support and understanding, and as long as I can I will be there for her.