My mother is 87 years old and has dementia she is physically fine mentally not so, we have Carers going in 3 times a day. Mam is fairly independent in that she washes and dresses herself and puts herself to bed. Most days she manages well with the carers going in. She has deteriorated with the Covid restrictions and we are having more bad days a week where she doesn’t understand the time and she goes to bed for about 3 hours then she is up all night wandering round the house putting everything in to piles (we have a canary system in her house so we can track her movements) she opens the front door usually early hours of the morning setting off the door sensor connected to care connect who have to send someone out as she doesn’t know how to talk to the care connect team through the care connect unit. Mam has had a few episodes lately of confusion partly down to water infection. I’m struggling to cope as she rings me up early hours of morning and at night she can’t always communicate very well so end up going round when she’s confused I have to stay with her; though we have carers once they have gone it’s down to me as Mam is not safe to be left. A few times i’ve had to come out of work as she has been agitated and Carer was concerned. I’m a bag of nerves and can’t really cope anymore i’veManaged to get a time to think bed for 6 weeks (she is self funded). Mam is saying no she’s not going and is being bad tempered with me. It’s breaking my heart I have to wait a week before she can go in and also have to do a covid test. Any advice on how to coerce Mam into going or should i not tell her and in the day just take her if she will come.