Just to say hello

[090457]

My husband has dementia just been given diagnosis I am just trying to come to terms with it all. My biggest problem is the practicalities of it is that I have severe mobility and other health problems( sounds only thinking of myself) but we have been married 42yrs and I want to be able to look after him as long as possible I know he will refuse to have anyone in the house but as a wheelchair user (but still get around bungalow) know we will help as things changing quickly. Had realised for a year but he refused to go see GP until failed the mental capacity assessment to change will and to get a lasting power of attorney, mine went through MCA not needed but his didn’t. Trying to come to terms with all

 

[Kevinl]

Never worry, you're never alone on here.
That said hello and welcome from me. K

 

[Izzy]

Welcome to the forum @090457.

I'm sorry to hear about your nhusband's diagnosis. It must be such a worrying time for you. I'm so glad you've found this forum.

You might find these publincations helpful -

The dementia guide: Living well after your diagnosis

Have you recently been diagnosed with dementia? Get your copy of the latest version of our dementia guide. It has lots of tips and advice to help you live well with dementia and keeping doing the activities that you enjoy.

www.alzheimers.org.uk

Caring for a person with dementia: A practical guide

Are you supporting someone living with dementia? Get your copy of the latest version of our guide for carers.

www.alzheimers.org.uk

That's a lot to take in so just dip into it when you feel you can. More importantly please come here when you have questions or concerns. Take care.