Just re-read the title -not sure it's quite right - I'm looking for help to deal with this, not ideas to make it happen! Sorry - getting slightly hysterical here. I'll explain.
Mum (90, AZ. lives with me & OH) has come home from a week in respite 2 weeks ago and is quite a lot more incontinent than when she went in. This has happened before and usually improves once she is home, but not this time. She wears pull-ups (which we get from the Continence Service - 2 pairs a day) and although they were getting increasingly heavy by the morning, her night time ones were coping with an extra liner. Now she has very strong-smelling urine and seems to be going to the toilet a lot more (she does still know when she needs to go, but doesn't get there in time). I've also been greeted by discarded, sodden pants and a puddle of urine on the bedroom or bathroom floor several mornings and consequently a wet bed as she doesn't always find clean pants to put on (or get them on correctly if she does!) Talked to the GP who has asked for a sample to check for a UTI, but she has no other UTI symptoms. It's making the whole house smell as I think she's trodden in puddles of it and then walked on the carpets. Lovely
Does anyone have any suggestions for the cause, or strategies to deal with it please?
Mum (90, AZ. lives with me & OH) has come home from a week in respite 2 weeks ago and is quite a lot more incontinent than when she went in. This has happened before and usually improves once she is home, but not this time. She wears pull-ups (which we get from the Continence Service - 2 pairs a day) and although they were getting increasingly heavy by the morning, her night time ones were coping with an extra liner. Now she has very strong-smelling urine and seems to be going to the toilet a lot more (she does still know when she needs to go, but doesn't get there in time). I've also been greeted by discarded, sodden pants and a puddle of urine on the bedroom or bathroom floor several mornings and consequently a wet bed as she doesn't always find clean pants to put on (or get them on correctly if she does!) Talked to the GP who has asked for a sample to check for a UTI, but she has no other UTI symptoms. It's making the whole house smell as I think she's trodden in puddles of it and then walked on the carpets. Lovely
Does anyone have any suggestions for the cause, or strategies to deal with it please?