My husband was diagnosed with Vascular Dementia 3 months ago. I am having real trouble coping with his lack of motivation and slowness. The worst thing is that althought I need help to do kitchen chores, etc, he cannot help without being micromanaged as well. I am exhausted having cooked a stirfry and mince for the next couple of days and hoped he would help wash up so we could have a feeling of achievement and an afternoon to do whatever we wish or can. Vas. Dem. doesn't work like that though and I seriously lost my temper and now feel bad about it.
It doesn't help that we have been married 52 years and not altogether happy and with my own health making me weaker and barely coping with this horrible diagnosis. I know he cannot help it, but I am beginning to lose control. 🥺
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It doesn't help that we have been married 52 years and not altogether happy and with my own health making me weaker and barely coping with this horrible diagnosis. I know he cannot help it, but I am beginning to lose control. 🥺
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