Now I know its really true , he has dementia. He has been having hallucinations for some time and moving and hiding things. I have mild dyspraxia so its difficult to cope anyway . I have only a cleaner once a week for 2 hours . He wont pay his way, never has but does buy some food. I thought it was due to Aspergers which he had been diagnosed with years ago, but he wont admit it . He has a lovely daughter whom he doesnt acknowledge , says she isnt his daughter. So so difficult and now he refuses to get rid of his car though his doctor informed the DVLA that he should not drive. He is driving my car and hasnt taxed his car recently and refuses to sell it . He keeps getting threatening letters from the DVLA about the tax. I dont want him to get a SORN or it will be stuck in my driveway and we wont be able to get in my garage which if full of his junk which he wont move . ETC ETC Its such a nightmare . I am trying to get LPA but its very difficult , I am sure he wont sign anything. I own this house but its like he calls all the tunes. PHEW what a moan ! Is there a magic wand or white witch out there ? Thanks if anyone can advise anything !