we’ve had twice daily NHS carers since tuesday and everything is getting worse. Mum is not coping with them parachuting in and needing things done in their timescale.
Mum will not get off the commode for them so their visits are being elongated. They have now been instructed to nurse her from bed. They were really brusque with me tonight which has upset me….and then told me not to cry….
With me she will get off fine …..if she is having a bad day I leave it for a while and come back to it.
I understand their reasoning….But monday she is most likely to going to respite but they have her down as mobile and not bed bound……
No phone lines open now for support 😢😢😢
Mum doesnr understand about just going to the toilet in her pad…and I don’t anyway want to leave her in wet until they come back at 11am tomorrow …
Residential is the next step but there’s been issues with the rarity of her physical health - I just need some help getting it sorted……
I guess I have to phone the respite tomorrow and say she’s stuck in bed and then they say ‘no thank you’ …and i get no where…😢😢😢
Mum will not get off the commode for them so their visits are being elongated. They have now been instructed to nurse her from bed. They were really brusque with me tonight which has upset me….and then told me not to cry….
With me she will get off fine …..if she is having a bad day I leave it for a while and come back to it.
I understand their reasoning….But monday she is most likely to going to respite but they have her down as mobile and not bed bound……
No phone lines open now for support 😢😢😢
Mum doesnr understand about just going to the toilet in her pad…and I don’t anyway want to leave her in wet until they come back at 11am tomorrow …
Residential is the next step but there’s been issues with the rarity of her physical health - I just need some help getting it sorted……
I guess I have to phone the respite tomorrow and say she’s stuck in bed and then they say ‘no thank you’ …and i get no where…😢😢😢