hi Everyone,
I would dearly love some advice and support. My 83 year old mother was sectioned last Wednesday after a rapid deterioration in her mental health. For approximately three years she has created a delusion that her neighbour is constantly breaking into her house and leaving signs and symbols on her glass table (they are fingerprints), slicing into her woodwork (generally wear and tear) and generally tormenting her. Before the section she was so angry with me for not getting him evicted and she was becoming extremely distressed when she thought he had put blood in her bed (how awful it must be to believe that)...when it was bleeding from the eczema she has suffered from for years.
Anyway, she is without a dementia diagnosis but I am sure there is dementia (although the headscan showed nothing). She has recently shown spatial and temporal deterioration - forgetting how to use household appliances in particular. Hopefully we can get somewhere with a diagnosis now she is in an assessment centre.
I am at the end of my tether and feel so guilty. Now she’s in hospital I feel so relieved not to have to shoulder the worry and burden of trying to care for someone who is so poorly. I also have a two year old boy who is so precious and for the first time in his entire life I feel free to enjoy him. Does that make me a terrible person?
I would dearly love some advice and support. My 83 year old mother was sectioned last Wednesday after a rapid deterioration in her mental health. For approximately three years she has created a delusion that her neighbour is constantly breaking into her house and leaving signs and symbols on her glass table (they are fingerprints), slicing into her woodwork (generally wear and tear) and generally tormenting her. Before the section she was so angry with me for not getting him evicted and she was becoming extremely distressed when she thought he had put blood in her bed (how awful it must be to believe that)...when it was bleeding from the eczema she has suffered from for years.
Anyway, she is without a dementia diagnosis but I am sure there is dementia (although the headscan showed nothing). She has recently shown spatial and temporal deterioration - forgetting how to use household appliances in particular. Hopefully we can get somewhere with a diagnosis now she is in an assessment centre.
I am at the end of my tether and feel so guilty. Now she’s in hospital I feel so relieved not to have to shoulder the worry and burden of trying to care for someone who is so poorly. I also have a two year old boy who is so precious and for the first time in his entire life I feel free to enjoy him. Does that make me a terrible person?