Hi, I'm new. My dad lives with us and we've just relocated from another country. We found out a few months ago that he was misdiagnosed (from where we used to live), and is further along than we thought - mixed dementia: vascular and alzheimers. As his carer, I feel really bad that we're now considering putting him in a care home, but it's either that or continue on with the feeling of anxiety, stress and helplessness.