My dad has been recently diagnosed with early Alzheimer's, I live about 5 hours away by car, so obviously I cannot go to every appointment with him but his partner does, however I feel very kept in the dark regarding his health and he doesn't remember what he has to do yet his partner doesn't pick the phone up and tell me, if he's been in hospital for emergency (he has in the past) I dont find out until the next couple of days is there anything I can do so I find things out when they happen or before they happen? Thanks in advance x