hiya
Since I last posted my grandma’s dementia has progressed significantly.
In November we found her collapsed beside her bed having been there all night and she spent 5 weeks in hospital being treated for a UTI.
On the back of this a care plan was put in place for 4 visits per day, alongside the 2 hours we already pay for privately.
The first week of January she had another fall, she was being treated for a UTI already but we’re sure it contributed. She spent 2 weeks in hospital, was then discharged to a care home for 3 weeks before then being sent home.
She was only at home for 10 days before on Sunday she was found at the bottom of the stairs having had a 3rd fall. Miraculously she didn’t have any serious injuries. In hospital they’ve treated her for another UTI and pneumonia.
She’s 93, lives alone in an upstairs council flat that can only be accessed by a set of internal stairs.
We’ve raised concerns repeatedly about the stairs being a huge risk, the ambulance service also put a referral in on Sunday to social services about this and the drs at the hospital agreed she was not safe at home.
Another concern is the day before the fall down the stairs she told one of her carers she was fed up and was considering throwing herself down the stairs to end it all. We don’t know if that’s what happened on Sunday, and clearly she has no memory of the fall to tell us.
We’ve just been told she’s been moved to a discharge ward ready to return home. We’re at a complete loss at what to do now, the dementia team at the hospital are just as shocked and recommended we hide the key safe key and refuse to take her home ourselves.
Has anyone had any similar experiences? Social services are adamant she doesn’t qualify for full time care and can only suggest we bid on downstairs properties through the council to remove the safety issue. Aside from the fact it isnt a quick process, we see little point in the upheaval when chances are she won’t be there for long.
thank you all in advance
Since I last posted my grandma’s dementia has progressed significantly.
In November we found her collapsed beside her bed having been there all night and she spent 5 weeks in hospital being treated for a UTI.
On the back of this a care plan was put in place for 4 visits per day, alongside the 2 hours we already pay for privately.
The first week of January she had another fall, she was being treated for a UTI already but we’re sure it contributed. She spent 2 weeks in hospital, was then discharged to a care home for 3 weeks before then being sent home.
She was only at home for 10 days before on Sunday she was found at the bottom of the stairs having had a 3rd fall. Miraculously she didn’t have any serious injuries. In hospital they’ve treated her for another UTI and pneumonia.
She’s 93, lives alone in an upstairs council flat that can only be accessed by a set of internal stairs.
We’ve raised concerns repeatedly about the stairs being a huge risk, the ambulance service also put a referral in on Sunday to social services about this and the drs at the hospital agreed she was not safe at home.
Another concern is the day before the fall down the stairs she told one of her carers she was fed up and was considering throwing herself down the stairs to end it all. We don’t know if that’s what happened on Sunday, and clearly she has no memory of the fall to tell us.
We’ve just been told she’s been moved to a discharge ward ready to return home. We’re at a complete loss at what to do now, the dementia team at the hospital are just as shocked and recommended we hide the key safe key and refuse to take her home ourselves.
Has anyone had any similar experiences? Social services are adamant she doesn’t qualify for full time care and can only suggest we bid on downstairs properties through the council to remove the safety issue. Aside from the fact it isnt a quick process, we see little point in the upheaval when chances are she won’t be there for long.
thank you all in advance