Hi,
We have serious concerns for my father in law with regards to his memory. He is currently in a rehabilitation center following a fall which broke his hip, since he has been taken out of his normal environment his memory problems have become increasingly obvious - so much so the home which he is in have also picked up on this and have suggested a memory assessment. They have discussed this with him however he point blank refuses to be assessed as he feels they are trying to trick him into failing and that he'll only get tested if he knows the questions in advance! Whenever the subject is broached with him he becomes extremely aggressive and abusive and then just shuts down and turns the TV up or orders us to leave.
We've tried to convince him to have the test to ensure that his medication is correct but he still refuses.
His father had Alzheimers and we're convinced he knows that something is going on with him which is similar which is why he will not have the test.
The home want to send him home as they have done all the works they can with him for rehab purposes and following a home visit last week they are having his capacity to understand risks assessed this week by a social worker however if they deem him fit to understand risks we don't know what else to do. He'll be living alone with carers helping him for the first 6 weeks but following that he refuses to pay for additional care so he'll be on his own.
We've written to his GP expressing our concerns and asking for his help but nothing has come of that.
Is there any way to force him into a memory assessment so we can get him the help and support he needs before he does himself some serious damage once he's home?
Any advice would be appreciated.
We have serious concerns for my father in law with regards to his memory. He is currently in a rehabilitation center following a fall which broke his hip, since he has been taken out of his normal environment his memory problems have become increasingly obvious - so much so the home which he is in have also picked up on this and have suggested a memory assessment. They have discussed this with him however he point blank refuses to be assessed as he feels they are trying to trick him into failing and that he'll only get tested if he knows the questions in advance! Whenever the subject is broached with him he becomes extremely aggressive and abusive and then just shuts down and turns the TV up or orders us to leave.
We've tried to convince him to have the test to ensure that his medication is correct but he still refuses.
His father had Alzheimers and we're convinced he knows that something is going on with him which is similar which is why he will not have the test.
The home want to send him home as they have done all the works they can with him for rehab purposes and following a home visit last week they are having his capacity to understand risks assessed this week by a social worker however if they deem him fit to understand risks we don't know what else to do. He'll be living alone with carers helping him for the first 6 weeks but following that he refuses to pay for additional care so he'll be on his own.
We've written to his GP expressing our concerns and asking for his help but nothing has come of that.
Is there any way to force him into a memory assessment so we can get him the help and support he needs before he does himself some serious damage once he's home?
Any advice would be appreciated.