I am new to this forum and looking for some advice. I recently lost my father - my mum who has dementia keeps asking about my dad and I have to keep reminding her that he died - it’s very painful to see each time - although I do believe she is slowly beginning to come to terms with it - we make a little progress everyday - but it has been challenging. I need to take my mum home to live with me as she cannot live on her own - we are 300 miles apart. My concerns are:
She thinks she is coming for a short break but it is to stay permanently - she will obviously want to visit the cemetery everyday as we have only just buried her husband - she will be living in unfamiliar surroundings - I do plan on having care - but to be honest it is all a little overwhelming - I am just unsure as to how my mum will react to such life changing circumstances - I have not even had the chance to even process my dad passing away yet let alone caring for my mum. And I need to return to work at some point. Any advice would be appreciative
She thinks she is coming for a short break but it is to stay permanently - she will obviously want to visit the cemetery everyday as we have only just buried her husband - she will be living in unfamiliar surroundings - I do plan on having care - but to be honest it is all a little overwhelming - I am just unsure as to how my mum will react to such life changing circumstances - I have not even had the chance to even process my dad passing away yet let alone caring for my mum. And I need to return to work at some point. Any advice would be appreciative