Hi! I have just joined online after my mum has been taken nto hospital after she had a fall at home.
She is 71 and the last few months the family have noticed she has mixed times of vagueness, confusion & depression. Tests at the hospital show she suffered a small stroke, and a CT scan shows dementia is present.
She has been in hospital for 2 weeks now & over this time she has got worse instead of better. My brother and I receive calls regularly from the hospital telling us she is getting aggressive towards both staff & patients and each visit she is more confused & we hear random stories that we know aren't true, but seem to be etched in her brain as we hear them all the time - but every time with a different ending.
They have now told us they are not going to recommend my mum going back to her own home as she will not cope. Her mobility has severely deteriorated and the thought of her pottering around in the kitchen keeps me awake at night.
Is there an easy way to tell your mum that she will not be returning to her own home? I know that this will break her heart but WE all know it' for her own safety & well being.
We have recently found hidden medication in her bag at the hospital, showing us that she isn't even taking that now! All so very sad and heart breaking to watch, but we want to do what is best for her.
Any help and advice would be gratefully received, Thank you
She is 71 and the last few months the family have noticed she has mixed times of vagueness, confusion & depression. Tests at the hospital show she suffered a small stroke, and a CT scan shows dementia is present.
She has been in hospital for 2 weeks now & over this time she has got worse instead of better. My brother and I receive calls regularly from the hospital telling us she is getting aggressive towards both staff & patients and each visit she is more confused & we hear random stories that we know aren't true, but seem to be etched in her brain as we hear them all the time - but every time with a different ending.
They have now told us they are not going to recommend my mum going back to her own home as she will not cope. Her mobility has severely deteriorated and the thought of her pottering around in the kitchen keeps me awake at night.
Is there an easy way to tell your mum that she will not be returning to her own home? I know that this will break her heart but WE all know it' for her own safety & well being.
We have recently found hidden medication in her bag at the hospital, showing us that she isn't even taking that now! All so very sad and heart breaking to watch, but we want to do what is best for her.
Any help and advice would be gratefully received, Thank you