Hi, couldn’t sleep with worry and found this site. Mum is 90 and lives in her own. I have a daughter with learning difficulties. Mum is starting to go downhill. We have carers going to her morning and evening but she won’t let them do anything. The district nurses have called to give b12 injection but she wouldn’t let them administer it. Mums not eating much, she’s urine incontinent,mainly in the mornings, and I have to change her bed often, she has a commode but won’t use it. She won’t use incontinence pads at night. She’s stopped showering and washing her hair. It’s all such a worry.
I’m at a loss as to how I persuade her to shower, she says she’ll do it but forgets conversations within a minute. I think it maybe time to think about a care home but that scares and upsets me. At a loss about what to do next.
I’m at a loss as to how I persuade her to shower, she says she’ll do it but forgets conversations within a minute. I think it maybe time to think about a care home but that scares and upsets me. At a loss about what to do next.