Hi I am a newbie to the Alzheimer’s .org. Im 75 and at the moment I feel like 175, no doubt you know the feeling, my husband is 78 and has had dementia a few years now ,but we coped ok untill 4th august when his “habit” of picking leaves up in the garden led him to tripping over a small wall and going head first through A glass greenhouse 😢 which resulted in several cuts and bad gashes on his head, and 2 fractures in his neck, of course he had to go into hospital where they put him in a “hard” neck brace collar which he has to wear night and day for approx 12 weeks, of course the first night he came home I got him ready undressed and washed and into bed, only to hear him padding about an hour after I went downstairs, so I went upstairs again and he had undressed , taken the neck brace off and hung it on the door🫣. This was the start of a couple of days where he would keep removing it but eventually he learned he had to tolerate it and this is where we are at today with apparently another 6 weeks to keep it on ,, these last two days however I have noticed a rather big change in him, where he is not eating much and I have to keep pushing him to drink as well , it’s upsetting as his speech has deteriorated very very confused doesn’t finish sentences even though they are not making any sense when he starts saying something, I obviously let it out and cry when I’m on my own , I have 2 elderly dogs which we usually take for a very short walk in a morning and afternoon , but that’s now a struggle because it’s just so much hassle trying to get hubby in the car, and the dogs and as I say I know I’m not on my own , but I am feeling so down and I don’t know which way to turn ,,