Hi
I have an elderly father and step mother 80 and 84 respectively. Both have dementia, father vascular and step mother alzheimers. They currently live in a council property and I'm hoping they will get moved to sheltered accommodation soon.
I feel that both are deteriorating and they are struggling with each other in different respects. My father is confidence is going and gets very shouty and upset. My step mother is extremely forgetful and very argumentative.
I'm 250 miles away and I'm just wondering if now is the time to see if we can get them some support or atleast make them known to the social care workers as literally they are almost off the radar to anyone, not known to anyone offically, apart from doctors and hospital.
If anyone could please advise of what I can do or how I start wheels, In motion I'd appreciate that.
I have an elderly father and step mother 80 and 84 respectively. Both have dementia, father vascular and step mother alzheimers. They currently live in a council property and I'm hoping they will get moved to sheltered accommodation soon.
I feel that both are deteriorating and they are struggling with each other in different respects. My father is confidence is going and gets very shouty and upset. My step mother is extremely forgetful and very argumentative.
I'm 250 miles away and I'm just wondering if now is the time to see if we can get them some support or atleast make them known to the social care workers as literally they are almost off the radar to anyone, not known to anyone offically, apart from doctors and hospital.
If anyone could please advise of what I can do or how I start wheels, In motion I'd appreciate that.