Hello to everyone. I am reaching out to people who understand this condition as I am finding it incredibly difficult to manage full time.
My mum in law was diagnosed two years ago with cognitive impairment and with no support offered or medication ( which I only recently discovered, existed).
As she lives with me and my husband we are living with this full time and at times it can take its toll. I feel sad she doesn't remember the present or the memories we are making. She didn't remember her Christmas gifts, she lost gifts she bought others.
It's the constant repeating which I personally found difficult. With three autistic males in the house there is little to no understanding of the impact this has. To them she has lost her mind etc which isn't helpful.
I have ADHD and my tolerance for repetitive behaviour is something I find hard to manage.
I mentioned seeing the doctor about medication and she has withdrawn from me like I have signed her death warrant. My husband is noticing the decline which to me isn't over a long period and I worry if she doesn't want my help no one else in the house will do anything to help.
she has a daughter who doesn't want to help or anything and i feel quite alone.
can anyone else relate
thanks catherine
My mum in law was diagnosed two years ago with cognitive impairment and with no support offered or medication ( which I only recently discovered, existed).
As she lives with me and my husband we are living with this full time and at times it can take its toll. I feel sad she doesn't remember the present or the memories we are making. She didn't remember her Christmas gifts, she lost gifts she bought others.
It's the constant repeating which I personally found difficult. With three autistic males in the house there is little to no understanding of the impact this has. To them she has lost her mind etc which isn't helpful.
I have ADHD and my tolerance for repetitive behaviour is something I find hard to manage.
I mentioned seeing the doctor about medication and she has withdrawn from me like I have signed her death warrant. My husband is noticing the decline which to me isn't over a long period and I worry if she doesn't want my help no one else in the house will do anything to help.
she has a daughter who doesn't want to help or anything and i feel quite alone.
can anyone else relate
thanks catherine