Hi my mum has dementia/Alzheimer they call it a confused picture my sister has been her full time carer for three years but cannot carry on so full time care at home is now being put in place I come once a month to give her a break, they both come to gave Sunday lunch with my wife & I every other week.i think she would be classed as nearing stage 6 her husband died three years ago & I can feel quite depressed when I'm here. I've seen adverts. for people with dementia laughing, smiling taking g part in social gatherings but it's not my experience. I can only see someone who once was a professional person picking up leaves in the garden for an hour & being shown how to butter bread it's devastating & j can see no quality of life, now we're entering in this new phase & sometimes I just wish it would all end honestly. I feel mean & selfish but that's how it is.Thank you for listening.