Hi,
So my lovely grandma over the last few years has been suffering with memory loss, it has recently been progressively getting worse unfortunately. We have been to the GPs for annual check ups where she says everything is fine, the GP has come to her house once to do a memory test, which she utterly refused to do, and got extremely angry when she realised what was going on. She did sarcastically answer the questions. A memory clinic nurse/doctor tried to make an appointment whereby she again got very upset and angry.
Over the last few weeks, she has been a bit more open with my Grandad, apologising for forgetting things and makes little jokes about it. My grandparents are really lovely people and do love to socialise, but I dont think they'd like going to groups etc, cause to them they aren't that old and very independent etc. My grandad is 88 in June and my grandma 84 in October.
I'm basically writing on here for some advice/ help, because as a family we are at a real loss of what to do, and really we haven't even got a diagnosis, which is ridiculously for something that's been happening for the last few years. My grandad is troopering on but he is getting older and more tired. And currently he is sleeping in a chair next to my grandma, which is not going to be helping his health at all.
I also notice my grandma has a lot of scabs on her arms, as she scratches herself quite a bit whilst watching TV for example, her hands are always doing something. Not sure if this is dementia related or something anyone has experienced with their dementia relative.
Anyway, i hope some of the above makes sense, and any advice etc about anything (DVLA/ scratching/ impatience/ carer support to be honest would be so much appreciated!!
Thanks xx
So my lovely grandma over the last few years has been suffering with memory loss, it has recently been progressively getting worse unfortunately. We have been to the GPs for annual check ups where she says everything is fine, the GP has come to her house once to do a memory test, which she utterly refused to do, and got extremely angry when she realised what was going on. She did sarcastically answer the questions. A memory clinic nurse/doctor tried to make an appointment whereby she again got very upset and angry.
Over the last few weeks, she has been a bit more open with my Grandad, apologising for forgetting things and makes little jokes about it. My grandparents are really lovely people and do love to socialise, but I dont think they'd like going to groups etc, cause to them they aren't that old and very independent etc. My grandad is 88 in June and my grandma 84 in October.
I'm basically writing on here for some advice/ help, because as a family we are at a real loss of what to do, and really we haven't even got a diagnosis, which is ridiculously for something that's been happening for the last few years. My grandad is troopering on but he is getting older and more tired. And currently he is sleeping in a chair next to my grandma, which is not going to be helping his health at all.
I also notice my grandma has a lot of scabs on her arms, as she scratches herself quite a bit whilst watching TV for example, her hands are always doing something. Not sure if this is dementia related or something anyone has experienced with their dementia relative.
Anyway, i hope some of the above makes sense, and any advice etc about anything (DVLA/ scratching/ impatience/ carer support to be honest would be so much appreciated!!
Thanks xx