I still work during the day & care for my husband at night. He has been suffering from Dementia for 6 years.
The one thing I share with friends? I do not correct my husband’s statements or illusions. When he asks if we are going to drive over to his mom’s house, I tell him, “maybe tomorrow… “ When he got angry about my bathing & shaving routine & told me, “You don’t do a very good job, I think I’m going to fire you,” I said, “I understand.” He forgets what he said in 10 minutes so correcting him would frustrate him … who benefits from THAT? Certainly not my dear husband.
I looked this forum up because of the constant gibberish & noises he has started making in the last month. I appreciate others insight & thank you!
The one thing I share with friends? I do not correct my husband’s statements or illusions. When he asks if we are going to drive over to his mom’s house, I tell him, “maybe tomorrow… “ When he got angry about my bathing & shaving routine & told me, “You don’t do a very good job, I think I’m going to fire you,” I said, “I understand.” He forgets what he said in 10 minutes so correcting him would frustrate him … who benefits from THAT? Certainly not my dear husband.
I looked this forum up because of the constant gibberish & noises he has started making in the last month. I appreciate others insight & thank you!