Hello everyone. I am new here. I guess today was the straw that broke the camels back. My dad has been suffering from "memory loss" for the past 4 years. Never thought much of till these past 2 weeks. My mom was in the hospital for almost 2 weeks. He would forget where she was and we would tell her but he never remembered. Finally she got released to go home. I thought that once she got home he would be fine, boy was I wrong. I think the time away made it worse. Now he won't leave her alone. Always hovering over her telling her to get up and do stuff and getting a little violent with her (grabbing shoulders, shaking). Meanwhile my mom should be resting and getting better. I'm at my wits end. I know what the next step is but how do I come to terms with it?? How do I go about starting the process?? We called the non emergency police number they said we should call next time he does that but I think it might agitate him more. And the emergency line for his doc said take him to the ER and have them admit him in the hospitals mental health section or even have him baker acted (which I can't even imagine doing to my dad he's 88). I'm so torn but want my mom to be safe. What should I do?? Or if anyone had a similar situation what you ended up doing. Thanks for any advice.