My mothers been in respite for 4 weeks I was hoping she would stay but the home wasn’t engaging enough to keep her happily singing and getting an occasional beer -but on top of that my 2 sisters whom rarely visit her said she’s not ready to be in care she is now back at home with 4 carers a day and already bored again and extremely vunerable - my sisters want a video call re her future but everytime I enclued them on a what’s app chat I get abuse - verbally horrible - moms ok don’t need carers or a home but I see her daily and the one sees her once a week for an hour with her husband and the other 1 to 2 nights every 3 months or so - the last 6 months have been hell mom drank dettol in January and kept saying she wanted to die and was permanently in pain - I got her in respite 25/3 to 22/4 and gave me a break except what was worse was the abuse from my sisters - they won’t or can’t help but continue to stress me I’ve had high blood presssure and nose bleeds and ulcers etc for months I tell them I need help but if I ask to pick up meds it’s just abuse - I can’t cope the social worker knows I have the POA but keeps saying let’s have a best interest for mom meeting but my partner. Says every time you try to enclude your family you are more stressed than looking after her alone and it’s killing you and me
My partner has supported me wholly and sourly with mom since my father died 4 years we have been together 38 years I find it extremely sad my own sisters can’t support mom or me either
Any advice would be appreciated
My partner has supported me wholly and sourly with mom since my father died 4 years we have been together 38 years I find it extremely sad my own sisters can’t support mom or me either
Any advice would be appreciated