Hi everyone, hope your having a lovely evening
My dad has agreed to let me organise a cleaner at long last
I have read on here a lot from other people about getting a carer in under the guise of being a "cleaner". So this is what I am going to do.
I have spoken to the Manager today from the local carer service provider and going to meet her tomorrow for an assessment meeting (not sure what this involves).
So I rang my dad and said I am sorting you out a "cleaner" one hour a week to being with and lets see how it goes, if you want her to come in more often we can sort that out.
Straight away the excuses start!! e.g I might be out, if she is no good then I dont want her, etc etc etc the amount of hurdles he puts in place are shocking!
I have told him I need him to let me help him, as I cannot do it all!
The Manager was great and said the lady knows how to handle these issues, but I am worried he is just going to get me to cancel it after the first one next week
I really want this to work, as I want this lady to get a bond with him and hopefully start moving into a "caring role" as he smells, not washing properly, hair etc and I really want to help him.
Thanks for listening, and any advise or experiences with this would be really appreciated!
My dad has agreed to let me organise a cleaner at long last
I have read on here a lot from other people about getting a carer in under the guise of being a "cleaner". So this is what I am going to do.
I have spoken to the Manager today from the local carer service provider and going to meet her tomorrow for an assessment meeting (not sure what this involves).
So I rang my dad and said I am sorting you out a "cleaner" one hour a week to being with and lets see how it goes, if you want her to come in more often we can sort that out.
Straight away the excuses start!! e.g I might be out, if she is no good then I dont want her, etc etc etc the amount of hurdles he puts in place are shocking!
I have told him I need him to let me help him, as I cannot do it all!
The Manager was great and said the lady knows how to handle these issues, but I am worried he is just going to get me to cancel it after the first one next week
I really want this to work, as I want this lady to get a bond with him and hopefully start moving into a "caring role" as he smells, not washing properly, hair etc and I really want to help him.
Thanks for listening, and any advise or experiences with this would be really appreciated!