Hi. My name is Alex and I’ve been caring for my mum for over 2 years now and a year ago had to give up work to look after her full time. She has end stage dementia and because of a breakdown I had from carer burnout just before Christmas I put her into respite for 2 weeks. My brother and I picked her up Christmas Eve to bring her home but she is just worse than ever. Doubly incontinent, lost mobility, aggressive and agitated, doesn’t know who I am. It’s just heartbreaking .. She has been smearing feceas everywhere and I just can’t cope. I got in touch with Admiral Nurses who have said she needs 24hr supervision now and social services are looking to find her somewhere permanent. The problem I have now is because I live with and care for my mum, she rents a house from private landlord and claims housing benefit. I have not got power of attorney and will not be able to afford to live here, I phoned housing benefit today and they said I will not be able to stay in our home unless I can afford the rent, which I can’t and will have to register as homeless. Has anybody else been in this situation. Can anyone give me any advice please xx