My lovely husband is in a NH!
We have had difficult and good moments. I have questioned the 'care' and generally I am happy with the way my husband is dealt with
A TP friend suggested I should post about the following:
I visited as usual and there was my husband 'hemmed in' by the musician who was entertaining! - I was annoyed because he was literally cornered! Not the first time within the week.
I fumed - but went away to rant at a friend and to sort my husband's room out! Went back and managed to join in with the 'musical' entertainment.
Afterwards the Activities Organiser joined me - I calmly said I disliked my husbands 'cornering' and explained his objection to loud noise!! (only since dementia entered our lives!!). It was all done so amicably I was humbled by my earlier feelings!!!!!
I do believe if we can approach problems in an amicable way then we normally get a good response.
We have had difficult and good moments. I have questioned the 'care' and generally I am happy with the way my husband is dealt with
A TP friend suggested I should post about the following:
I visited as usual and there was my husband 'hemmed in' by the musician who was entertaining! - I was annoyed because he was literally cornered! Not the first time within the week.
I fumed - but went away to rant at a friend and to sort my husband's room out! Went back and managed to join in with the 'musical' entertainment.
Afterwards the Activities Organiser joined me - I calmly said I disliked my husbands 'cornering' and explained his objection to loud noise!! (only since dementia entered our lives!!). It was all done so amicably I was humbled by my earlier feelings!!!!!
I do believe if we can approach problems in an amicable way then we normally get a good response.