Early onset.

[Prue]

I am 65 yrs old, and have recently been diagnosed with Alzheimer's after a lumber punch test.
I feel quite isolated as I have lost all my self confidence, no longer being able to trust my memory.
Is anyone else still feeling they can drive confidently ?
Does any one else feel ashamed of having Alzheimer's, it's not logical I know.
I am also frightened of the future...
I would love to hear your thoughts on the above.

 

[kevi]

hi Prue
i was diagnosed in october 2020 i am now 65 - i have also lost all self confidence - and short term memory is
getting worse - i drive ok if i know the route - but do not like driving out of my comfort zone now i do not feel
ashamed it is what i am - i do not feel frightened of the future but my wife is more worried - we cried a lot at the beginning but have had to come to terms with it - hope you are ok kevin

 

[Izzy]

Welcome to the forum @Prue.

I’m so sorry to read about your diagnosis. As you can see from Kevi’s reply you will get understanding and support here.

I wondered if you find the Dementia guide helpful -

The dementia guide: Living well after your diagnosis

Have you recently been diagnosed with dementia? Get your copy of the latest version of our dementia guide. It has lots of tips and advice to help you live well with dementia and keeping doing the activities that you enjoy.

www.alzheimers.org.uk

 

[Shedrech]

Hello @Prue
A warm welcome to DTP

I'm sorry you are feeling isolated ... I hope joining this understanding and helpful community will be some support to you

A new diagnosis is a shock, maybe as the dust settles your confidence will grow ...

A diagnosis doesn't necessarily mean that you need to give up driving ... might you have a single driving lesson to hear what a 'professional' thinks of your driving, they may well have tips for you

Keep posting as members will listen and help

 

[Shedrech]

Hello @kevi
A warm welcome to posting on DTP
You and your wife sound to have a lovely partnership
I agree there is nothing to be ashamed over .... I never was of my dad, in fact I was proud of how he carried on .... life throws us challenges
Now you've started ... keep posting

 

[Tricot]

Hello Prue, I'm sorry you have this diagnosis especially at a relatively young age. I don't have a diagnosis but have many of the symptoms of dementia. I find it frightening as I'm on my own and am worried for the future. . My memory loss is worsening and I too am losing what little confidence I had. I no longer drive to new places as I know I'll get lost. Do you have help and support at home? I know you will find this forum a great support. Wishing you all the best.