Hello….Looking for any possible advise please?
My Dad has been assessed as early stage dementia, hes 96, lives on his own and is extremely independent. My Dad had a POA set up with my Brothers name on it and since my Dad got his assessment, my Brother has been asking me to fish out all our Dads financial information to tell each company of his dementia! I told my Dad and since, he has used every excuse under the sun not to and is now getting very upset by his Son nagging, because he is still compus mentas enough to hold onto his private financial matters! My Brother asked me again to get sorted, so i told him to call our Dad directly! I then saw my Dad later for our afternoon scrabble games and he brought up my Brother gad called; ‘not interested in how he was BUT wants my financial info’; my Dads words! Again, he was upset but a tad angry this time, as my Dad is a very proud man! Should my Dad be handing all his info now while he still knows 90% of his own mind or should my Brother be getting it? My Dad feels my Brother is very money motivated; again, his words!
Thank you for any advice![Big Grin :D :D](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
My Dad has been assessed as early stage dementia, hes 96, lives on his own and is extremely independent. My Dad had a POA set up with my Brothers name on it and since my Dad got his assessment, my Brother has been asking me to fish out all our Dads financial information to tell each company of his dementia! I told my Dad and since, he has used every excuse under the sun not to and is now getting very upset by his Son nagging, because he is still compus mentas enough to hold onto his private financial matters! My Brother asked me again to get sorted, so i told him to call our Dad directly! I then saw my Dad later for our afternoon scrabble games and he brought up my Brother gad called; ‘not interested in how he was BUT wants my financial info’; my Dads words! Again, he was upset but a tad angry this time, as my Dad is a very proud man! Should my Dad be handing all his info now while he still knows 90% of his own mind or should my Brother be getting it? My Dad feels my Brother is very money motivated; again, his words!
Thank you for any advice