I'd like to ask a question in which someone MAY be able to answer me or help with PLEASE!!!....
My lovely mum 84 has Alzheimer's (2yrs) she still knows us and can have good conversation in the here and now but repeats withins seconds and forgets within seconds...
We're a very close family and I see mum many times a week , she only lives with my stepdad around the corner ..
Unfortunately I have been diagnosed with breast cancer, (50yrs) I've had the op just before xmas...
We've managed to keep this from mum at the mo thinking that she would just make herself ill with worry ( she is such a worrier) at times this has been very hard not only for me but also brother & sister, we don't keep secrets as a family.. But now I am having to have chemotherapy and just know that mum is picking up on vibes, she knows I've had an operation but not that it's Cancer ... Can anyone suggest how we can approach this or should we just tell mum outright?? It's hard not telling your own mum but we only want what's best for her.. Thanku for reading this...
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My lovely mum 84 has Alzheimer's (2yrs) she still knows us and can have good conversation in the here and now but repeats withins seconds and forgets within seconds...
We're a very close family and I see mum many times a week , she only lives with my stepdad around the corner ..
Unfortunately I have been diagnosed with breast cancer, (50yrs) I've had the op just before xmas...
We've managed to keep this from mum at the mo thinking that she would just make herself ill with worry ( she is such a worrier) at times this has been very hard not only for me but also brother & sister, we don't keep secrets as a family.. But now I am having to have chemotherapy and just know that mum is picking up on vibes, she knows I've had an operation but not that it's Cancer ... Can anyone suggest how we can approach this or should we just tell mum outright?? It's hard not telling your own mum but we only want what's best for her.. Thanku for reading this...
Xx