Hi, I'm involved in the care of my grandad (69, diagnosed with late stage mixed dementia and Alzheimer's) along with my nan and we are having issues deciding if we should go forward with abdominal aortic aneurysm surgery to prevent rupture.
Grandad was diagnosed with AAA 2 years ago, its large and until his dementia got worse we understood that he would have surgery when it reached this stage. His current dementia symptoms mainly affect his memory, he can eat, dress and walk the dog but is very irritable, aggressive and forgetful. Now the doctor is saying he is reluctant to operate due to the effect of anaesthetic on people with dementia, but its ultimately our decision.
Does anyone have any advice/hopeful stories of people who have made either decision? We're trying to find what the chances are of the surgery causing a decline in Grandad's situation.
We are leaning towards not doing surgery due to quality of life, but naturally we are struggling with guilt and 'what ifs'.
My apologies if this post is too long, and thank you for your help!
Grandad was diagnosed with AAA 2 years ago, its large and until his dementia got worse we understood that he would have surgery when it reached this stage. His current dementia symptoms mainly affect his memory, he can eat, dress and walk the dog but is very irritable, aggressive and forgetful. Now the doctor is saying he is reluctant to operate due to the effect of anaesthetic on people with dementia, but its ultimately our decision.
Does anyone have any advice/hopeful stories of people who have made either decision? We're trying to find what the chances are of the surgery causing a decline in Grandad's situation.
We are leaning towards not doing surgery due to quality of life, but naturally we are struggling with guilt and 'what ifs'.
My apologies if this post is too long, and thank you for your help!