My Dad got diagnosed with vascular dementia in July of this year and has private care 4x a week 3x a day along with my fiancé helping all day the other 3x a week. The private care are useless but doesn’t help with my Dad being stubborn and unwilling to eat when asked, prompted the care to make dinner no matter what my Dad says but still don’t seem to want to cook meals. I don’t have any family help apart from my older brother who has his own family and struggling with mental health, all other family members live far away or abroad. All been left on myself and fiancés shoulders but we constantly discuss when the best time would be to put Dad in a home, definitely no time soon as his health is fine but memory is becoming poor but we both have jobs and it’s starting to take its toll. Any help or someone who’s been In a similar situation who could give some advice?