Hi everyone, I’m looking for some tips, or maybe just some empathy, not quite sure what! My dad was diagnosed with vascular dementia in 2019, and recently we’ve seen a real deterioration. He’s now at the point where he’ll frequently go to do something and lose what he’s doing half way through. This recent deterioration has been really quick, so just been the last few days that it’s been this pronounced. He’s in that seemingly really horrible spot of still being aware of how much he’s struggling, and it’s incredibly difficult to watch. He’ll tell me how ‘nothing’s working’ and he’s ‘really lost the plot’ etc. I try and empathise and validate his feelings, I also shine a light on how well he’s doing where I can, but mainly just empathise. I’m anticipating that this stage may not last long, and that he may lose some awareness soon, but wondered if anyone had any phrases they would use that have worked well to gently reassure their loved one at this stage? Or general tips/virtual hand holding!! Sending love and light to all.