Thanks everyone for your support and caring. Today her new armchair arrived, it's lovely, really comfy, much higher than her old one to make it easier for her to get up from the armchair to her zimmer frame. Does she like it, of course not - she hates it! It was really expensive as well, these elderly high armchairs always are expensive. She's not in any pain, she just enjoys moaning all day, every day, she was like this pre AD. The only difference is I HAVE to go in and take care of her whereas before AD I saw her when I had to. Aaarrrhgg! I call her moany Minnie, Minnie moan, and sing a little song to myself whilst in the kitchen making her a cup of tea. 'Moany Minnie, Minnie moan, she moans all day and moans all night and moans and moans and moans.
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Sue xx
Hi Sue shell, I do feel for you, My moms the same moany Minnie that's a good one.
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You must send me what you sing LOL. I sing that McFLY song " ITS ALL ABOUT YOU! sorry but it keeps me sane at times.
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Look it up on you tube if you can. Its quite catchy. LOL
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The difference is my mom can walk still, and attended her church this morning 1/06/2014, While she was out I scrubbed the bathroom, the floor which was tiled hadn't been mopped for weeks and no kidding was thick with dust, It looked lovely when I finished a smelt great. Mom doesn't let me do house work and I think its because she doesn't want to admit a three bedroomed house is far to much for her.
I also prepared dinner and was cooking it when she came home. After we had eaten I cut a cream cake into three, she put out for dessert incase my son turns for his dinner and pudding too. She kicked off, I wasn't her daughter cutting the pudding, I wasn't her daughter later in her lounge, She shouted so loud I thought the neighbours may ring to find out what was going on.
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I did try to reassure her with, Don't worry mom, they all love you and wont hurt you.
She went ballistic I though I was going to be hit. I told her that me and the other ladies she thinks I am, Don't want to be spoken to like that. That was meet with IT'S MY HOUSE I DO WHAT I LIKE. shouting at the top of her voice and banging her hands on door so hard I thought the glass would smash. I soon left to catch my bus home.
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I cooked the dinner she made the gravy and dished up.as we wouldn't get any meal before 4PM, if I didn't prepare it while she is at church. Oh! and she does a lot for me, and I should be so grateful for the one meal and dessert she provides me once a week. I have to pay when we go out, fully sometimes
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and on Saturday nights take one of those meals for two from M a S, and tidy up behind her back, she hoards mail from years ago and I have managed to destroy that, or she will ring up and say she wants me to go round to sort this letter, when I get there its got 2003 date on it. So when she's out at church destroy all old bills etc. Hence today I feel upset, as anything ME her daughter.( THEY or HER as I'm called, when she forgets who I am or what I look like,) does ! isn't good enough! Moan! moan! moan,!
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How she can go to church and come home and treat her daughter or people she thinks are strangers to her beats me.
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I'm at home with a glass of wine as I write this
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, leaving her no dirty things to wash. Cheers!!!!!! to all SJcares.